It’s more common than you think guys, girls don’t always cum or have a deep orgasm like they show in every other porn video. Sometimes timings are off, sometimes she doesn’t get turn on enough to cum or sometimes you are just off while doing it, reasons could be any. And plus not all girls are that lucky to have an orgasm every time they have sex. However, hold your horses because i have brought some amazing techniques that you can try to make your girl cum every single time you have sex. `
All my boys or men get ready coz you are about to get schooled!! Do not rush though, as i am going to take you on a ride where i will teach you how to make a girl cum. Why trust my source over some other lame google article? Firstly i am here bring you all the information which is tried and tested, cherry on top as a women i know how things work and what a girl wants in bed to get hard ass orgasm.
So trust my womanly instincts and get down on this article to know the mysterious ways for women’s body. Firstly i am going to impart you with some if the tips that you need to keep in mind before going deep.
Start with the basics
First things first, which i know most of the men don’t consider it but trust me slow and steady wins the race. Do not go fast unless and until your partner says so. The main goal of sex is pleasure you are not in fast and furious movie, so you don’t have to rush it. Keep it light and slow let her enjoy every inch of your dick. Take your time with your movements. Swirl around.
Pro tip: If you keep thinking about orgasm then you wont get an orgasm, let the nature find its course. Do not pressure your self or your partner to get an orgasm. It is what it is!!
Vaginal Intercourse Orgasm or External Clit orgasm.
Yes these two are very different thing. And you my friend need to figure out if your partner is the one who could get orgasm by vaginal intercourse or external clit rubbing. Some girls get orgasm by getting pounding of dick inside them, and some get orgasm by rubbing their clit or sucking it. So make sure you know the difference.
A peak at the butt
You might now do anal, but it is crucial to at least give a little importance to this guy. No, i am not saying you should do anal. I am saying that maybe while putting it in or licking, you can slip your fingers near her butt and anal area and play with it. Trying some swirling or smooth finger running across her butt. The butt area is packed with nerve endings and will give her chills down the spine.
Neck game Strong
Neck is another soft spot you don’t want to miss. Our necks are highly responsive to touch and thus is the best place for stimulations. Make a start with soft kisses, do not approach for hard hickeys on the neck if you are focusing on making her cum. Soft kisses on the neck every now an then will make sure she stays in the mood.
Nipple Play
Have you heard of nipple play. If not, well now you do. Nipple area is another nerve ending zone. It says that nipple, brain, genital’s all end up talking to each other when in sync during nipple play. Some women get orgasm just by playing with nipples. Play with their breast, if they like it rough then go on squeez those lemons like never before. Suck on those nipples and play your tongue on tip of her nipple.
The OG G-Spot
Here comes the main part. Finding the G-spot. Most men don’t discover the g-spot. G-spot is not just one area for everyone. Every girl can have different g-spot. Usually you can find it inside from part of vagina wall. Once you find her g-spot there is no stopping, forget orgasm, she will not stop squirting. Try doggy style if you are aiming to find the g-spot.
OK! so we have covered the basic stuff that is necessary to do, now let us get into some of the techniques that you need to do according to your partner’s liking. Below is well researched information done by collecting data from numerous studies and women’s experience. There are many methods, your job is to try them and see which one your girl enjoys more.
Foreplay, Buildup, Anticipation, and Teasing
Women tend to take long in having orgasm. For them foreplay is the key to getting them turned on. Women need time to get in the mood. The beginning is where you need to set your base. Buildup the situation, try making a scenario or do a bit of a role play that will get her turned on. Teasing is also a crucial part. If you know how to tease your women while foreplay trust me you will have her dripping wet down there even before you start.
Trust, Intimacy, and Vulnerability
Women’s brain works in mysterious ways. Chances of women getting an orgasm is low if she doesn’t trust you. So try building up trust and intimacy. Make her happy, comfortable and relaxed. Make sure she can be vulnerable around you.
Overcoming Female Shame And Guilt Surrounding Sexual Pleasure
Yes this is a real thing. Women feel ashamed and have a feeling of guilt while having sexual pleasure. So you job is to make her feel comfortable and give her joy. Make her happy and realize there is nothing to be ashamed about.
Is She Enjoying It?
Once you start you need to look for signs. A few signs that your partner is enjoying it are:
- Sighs and moans
- Heavy breathing
- Relaxed body position
- Leaning into you
- Goosebumps and shivers
Your girlfriend should lay on her back on the edge of the bed with her butt on a few pillows so that her butt is just over her top. Now, approach her while standing. Push in, but simultaneously upward. Her place is in the upper portion of her vagina, so it’s simple to glide your penis straight past it.
You may confidently reach her g-spot and bring her to climax with this angle, when she is on her back with her bum lifted and you are coming from underneath and thrusting upwards.
Finger licking good
Fingering is another great way to get your girl to cum. Rubbing your dick in might work, but fingering will give a whole different level of pleasure. Some women cannot have an orgasm while having penetrative sex. For them fingering is OG. Plus if fingering done right, it can give squirting orgasm.
She should be on her back as you insert your two middle fingers into her and gently curl them upward. Start to glide your hand up and down, with your two fingers curled upward and pointed towards her belly button. This gives you the opportunity to hit the g-spot and touch her clit with the palm of your hand.
Oral Sex
For some oral sex is the key to getting orgasm. Eat her out!
- Blowing
- Kissing
- Sucking
- Biting
- Humming
Make sure to use your tongue while eating her out. Have you ever had a mango fruit all juicy and finger licking good. Imagine her vagina as the mango and suck it up. Lick her clit press your tongue against the opening of her vagina, eat her out like you are grabbing her soul.
Now comes a bit different part
Use Blindfold
Women get turned on by what they feel and hear.
While blinded from the sight, different senses of the body opens up. It also decreases self-consciousness of women. It’s exciting and dramatic, she can never see what’s coming next and that will get her turned on even more.
Use handcuffs
Another excellent item that can be used to raise a woman’s sexual arousal and enhance her capacity to come is handcuffs. For a woman, there’s nothing more thrilling than having her tied to the bedpost as you induce an orgasm.
In bed, this type of behavior makes ladies go crazy.
Once more, you are not need to own real handcuffs. Anything will work to safely and pleasantly fasten her hands to the bed. A belt or tie works well.
As you acquire total control over her, watch as her level of excitement (and arousal) skyrockets while she helplessly lies there.
So, here is the guide that gives every girl crazy orgasm. Make your girl cum every time you have sex. Go get em tiger!!